All Things for Our Good

Linger over one of the Bible’s most quoted—and most easily misused—promises: Romans 8:28. Kirk acknowledges how this verse, offered too quickly, can feel less like a lifeline and more like a slap in the face—rushing sufferers toward a silver lining, dismissing real pain, or subtly implying that ongoing grief is a failure of faith.

The aim is twofold: to help believers apply Romans 8:28 to their own suffering, and to help the church learn to minister it to others with wisdom and tenderness. See six clarifications—what the promise does not mean—showing that Paul is not guaranteeing material prosperity, calling evil “good,” or promising instant emotional relief. Instead, the “good” God is working is deeper and better: our salvation and conformity to Christ (Rom. 8:29), even through trials, loss, and affliction.

Notice Scripture’s honesty in lament, the hope of resurrection, and the comfort of God’s meticulous providence—without pretending we will always understand the “why” behind our suffering. The sermon culminates with the qualifying question of the text: Is this promise yours? Romans 8:28 is not a blanket assurance for everyone, but a sure anchor for those united to Christ by faith—because the greatest gift suffering cannot touch is this: nothing can separate us from the saving love of God in Christ (Rom. 8:35–39).